Harold E. Thornham Obituary in Dartmouth at Donald K. Walker Funeral Directors

Harold E. Thornham

Passed 05/17/2023

Obituary For Harold E. Thornham

Harold “Brud” E. Thornham

Age 96, of Dartmouth, passed away peacefully at home on May 17, 2023, surrounded by his loving family. He is survived by his wife of 74 years, Faye “Darlin” (nee Radford), four children: Elizabeth (Earl), David (Bev), Daniel (Karen), and LynnAnne (Iain), nine grandchildren: Bryan (Saundra), Scott (Julia), Chris (Talia), Jon (Lindsay), Kenzie, Abbie, Morgan (Jonathan), Kylie, and Caelan, five great-grandchildren: Liam, Emerson, Ava, Kate, and Finn, and one sister, Peggy. He was predeceased by his parents (Harold and Alice), brother (Bob), seven sisters (Marguerite, Vannie, Hallie, Lonie, Audrey, Joan, Gwen), a son in infancy (Harold III), and granddaughter (Breagh).

To all that knew him, Harold was affectionately known as “Brud”, short for “Brudder”, a nickname that was thoughtfully coined by his sisters during their childhood.

Brud had a long and fulfilling career as a mechanical engineer, after earning his degree at Dalhousie University and the Nova Scotia Technical College. Brud’s career took him around the globe, where he made numerous memories that he enjoyed sharing with his children and grandchildren.

Along with being a well-educated man, Brud was an avid sportsman. He enjoyed playing hockey, golf, and curling. He was a long-standing member of Brightwood Golf Club and Dartmouth Curling Club.

To know Brud was to love Brud. He was commonly described as a loving, patient, wise, witty, and gentle-man. It was hard not to love Brud when you met him, especially after receiving one of his memorable hugs. Brud was a man of great integrity, always striving to do what was right and set an example for those around him. He was completely devoted to his Darlin and family, always placing their love and happiness at the top of his list.

Above everything else, Brud cherished spending time with his family…he was the true epitome of a family man. Brud loved family get togethers and entertaining his grandchildren. He loved watching members of the family interact, laugh, and play. While he was a man of few words at times, he never failed to deliver one of his perfectly timed one-liners during get togethers. He will always be remembered as the “Grand Poopa”, the inventor of the ice cream game and bottle game, conductor of the slideshows, and the master at solving for “X”.

Brud lived a long and joyful life. While his family will miss him dearly, they are grateful that he had a peaceful passing in the comfort of his home, which was exactly what he wanted. Love you forever, 414.

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05/25/2023

Yvette and Greg Bleakney

Dan and Karen and the entire Thornham family. Our condolences to you, may all the wonderful memories give you comfort and support through this difficult time. Yvette and Greg
05/24/2023

Daryl and Marlene Robicheau

Dear Dan, Karen and family we are so sorry to hear about the passing of your Dad. We are thinking of you and sending our heartfelt love and sympathy. Daryl, Marlene and family
05/24/2023

Anna Marie Sarto

Dear Faye, Liz, Earl, Daniel, and all of the Thornham family members, Through reading Brud's life story, he certainly lived a beautiful and joyful life. From knowing his family, who I hold in extremely high regard, he was an incredible person who was loved by so many for many wonderful reasons. He will live on through your memories and same qualities that he passed on to all of you. Thinking of all of you at this difficult time and sending love and prayers to your families. Anna Marie Sarto
05/24/2023

Bob Woodroffe

I worked with Brud, as a fellow Professional Engineer, in Economic Development. He was a wonderful man in every respect. He always spoke so warmly of his family and had a great sense of humour. Often I have thought of Brud . Rest in peace my friend. My sincere condolences. Bob Woodroffe
05/24/2023

Rob and Mary Anne White

We are so sorry to hear of Uncle Brud's passing. We always looked forward to seeing him, and could count on the twinkle in his eye and his sense of humour. - Rob and Mary Anne White and family
05/24/2023

Maureen Myers

Dear Faye and family. We are so saddened to learn of Brud's passing and offer our sincere condolences. We shared some good times as neighbours and will fondly remember him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you mourn a kind wonderful man. Fred and Maureen Myers
05/24/2023

Darlene Marshall

Dear Dan, Karen, Jon and Chris: sorry to hear of your dad's/grandfather's passing. Hope the memories you have will comfort you. Sincerely, Darlene and Hugh Marshall
05/23/2023

Kelly Corbett

Faye and Liz, you are both in my thoughts as you grieve your beloved husband and father's passing. His obituary is a lovely testimonial to his remarkable life and accomplishments, and to the love he had for his family. Faye, you and Brud always impressed me as true soulmates. I always loved receiving your anniversary photos for the Tartan Team newsletter. A special couple you were! I know that he will be missed. May you find comfort in the memories you have of your 74 years together. My sincere condolences to you and your families. Kelly Corbett
05/23/2023

Patricia Berrigan

Our condolences to all the family on your loss of Brud. We have fond memories of our early days with him and Faye at the Dartmouth Curling Club. Such a nice man. Sincerely, Pat and Patrick Berrigan
05/23/2023

Kelly Martin

I had the pleasure of meeting Brud and Faye when they became volunteers at Halifax Stanfield International Airport, along with their daughter, Liz and husband, Earl. Brud and Faye were a beautiful, loving couple. After ALL their years of marriage they still had that romantic glow and ALWAYS held hands wherever they went. Even while volunteering at Halifax Stanfield. They brought smiles to so many people as they watched the two of them walk down a hall hand-in-hand. I am sure Brud and Faye were oblivious to the joy it brought people to see that kind of love in action at that age. Brud was a quiet man....but powerful in his word. I am so glad to have known him. Deepest sympathies to Faye, Liz, Earl and families. Kelly Martin
05/23/2023

Gail Rice

Sincere condolences to Faye and family. Gail Rice
05/23/2023

Judy DiPenta

Dear Dan, Karen and family, we are so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. You all were so fortunate to have him in your lives for so many years. Treasure your memories! Love Judy and Barry DiPenta & Family
05/23/2023

Charlie Verge

Thornham family: My condolences on the passing of Mr. Thornham. He certainly had a long wonderful marriage and along with his wife raised a great family. Keep your happier and fond memories close to your hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad time in your lives. Kind Regards Charlie A. Verge
05/23/2023

Roy & Kelly Dillman, Gerry Flinn

Dear Dan, Karen & Family, Please accept our condolences on your Dad's passing. He sure lived a long life. I remember running into your parents, at the Tyrone Mall in St Pete's, white I was shopping with my Mom. Hugs, Kelly & Roy
05/23/2023

Diane Burden and Rod DeBaie

Dan and Karen, our condolences to you and your family on the passing of your Dad. Rod and Diane
05/23/2023

Don Sawler

Faye and family Very sorry to read of your loss of Brud. You have shared many happy years and we hope those wonderful memories bring you comfort. Don and Dorothy Sawler
05/23/2023

Donna Bonner

Dear Dave and Bev, So sorry to hear of your loss..... Condolences to you and your families Sincerely, Donna Bonner
05/23/2023

Norma Kennedy

Thinking of you Faye. RIP Brud.
05/21/2023

Cathy Roberts

Dear Aunt Faye and family. I am so sorry about Uncle Brud. Thinking of you all during this sad time. Love Cathy and the boys
05/21/2023

Don Trider

We were sorry to hear of Uncle Brud's passing. Condolences to the family. We remember him as always having a smile and a kind word whenever our paths crossed. Don & Hulda Trider, Alberta
05/21/2023

Linda ,Harry Savelle & family

We are so sorry to hear about Uncle Bruds passing. Sending sincere condolences to all the family and our thoughts and prayers are with you. Linda, Harry & family
05/21/2023

Sandra Dares

We're so sorry to learn of Uncle Brud's passing. Sending love and condolences to Aunt Faye and the rest of the family. Sandra and Brad
05/21/2023

Ron & Audrey Jones

Dear Faye and family Thinking of you all at this sad time remembering the good times we shared at the different conventions through the years and our trips to Bermuda. You were both very special friends whose friendship we will always cherish love Ron and Audrey
05/21/2023

Lisa MacLeod

My sincere condolences to Faye, Liz and the whole family. Thinking of you during this time. ❤️
05/20/2023

Josey DJosey

Dear Faye I'm so sorry for your loss. I never stopped loving that great man. Thinking of you at this time
05/20/2023

Gloria Groves

So sorry for your loss, it was a total honour to know Brud. Lots of Friday night visits and doing puzzles. It was always a good time. God has called on another ANGEL and picked Brud. May you RIP and fly high. Love Gloria
05/20/2023

Pat and David Turner

Our sympathy to Faye, Liz and
05/20/2023

Cathy Brannen

Faye Liz and families sincere sympathy to all of you. Brud was one of a kind for sure. I remember him at Charlie's auctions holding His Darlings hand, enjoying their home packed lunch and chuckling at the auctioneers expressions. His visits to Dr Filliters office were always a joy with him being given a "prescription" for a hug!! When I think of Brud I smile and I hope with time you will too. Hugs Cathy and Deverne
05/20/2023

Sharon and Bruce McMullen

Our sympathy to Faye and the family.